Wednesday, September 14, 2016

How to Be a People Magnet


MY NOTES  

Female/Male
1. In your Shoes
2. Eye Contact
3. The Expanded Thank You
4. Trifling Touch
5. Slow, Spillover Smile
6. Listen to their Heart
7. Dis-Guys my Dialogue 
8. De-Gurrl my Dialogue 
    Lower my voice, speak more directly less hesitantly, and say    what I want 

   Say what I mean in complete sentences, no beating around the bush

   straight on with no humble introductions
   minimize feeling words and substitute facts. 

   drop all taglines 
   never apologize unless I mean it
   Show appreciation and trust 

9. Listen like a Nail 
10. Listen like Dunking Ducks 
11. Ditch the Butchers, talk to the Trashers
12. I am beautiful 
13. I'm a good mover
14.  The emperor's new clothes
   + Don't have anything in your hands so you seem approachable
   + Clothes only righteous can see, he was actually naked
15. My Five Star Smile
   1) Maintain eye contact
   2) Have our webs touching
   3) to exert light pressure
   4) to keep our palms marble close
   5) Perpendicular to the floor


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